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Between the ocean and the elevator: Why I Never Stopped Traveling

Travel affects wellbeing through at least two distinct channels: positive emotion — joy and awe — and self-efficacy, the confidence built from proving your own competence.

My first trip after my accident gave me two things I didn't expect: a lesson on how to advocate for myself— and joy from watching my son dip his toes in the ocean.

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The Legacy We Leave by Showing Up

With the right kind of support, nobody has to be left behind on family trips. Rafting as a paraplegic is possible. And in doing I left a lasting impression.

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Beyond the Charts: Believing in your clients’ capacity

What if the thing that helped me most in rehab wasn't a stretch or an exercise — it was one sentence, years apart from the exercise itself?

There's a name for it in psychology: RISE — your sense of how much your therapist believes in you. Research shows it predicts your own self-efficacy and effort, sometimes more than what you already believe about yourself.

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Living a Rich Life

Psychologists Oishi and Westgate (2022) argue a good life has three separate dimensions — happiness, meaning, and psychological richness — and most of us default to organizing our lives around only the first two.

I am sharing about how I found a way to live a Rick Life as a paraplegic mother.

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Parenting is a social act: experience from a mom on wheels

Parenting can be hard when our children have long days, filled with excitement. As parents, it may then be hard to manage, but this is why parenting is a great social act. When one parent can’t manage, another can take control of the situation. And a disability does not impede our ability to do so.

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To help or not to help? That is the question we should all ask ourselves!

When we see someone with a disability, we too often assume they are dependent and require help. Which leads us to giving assistance quickly, automatically and too often without even asking. Even when help is not warranted nor required.

Because most of us do not know enough about disabilities, our tendencies are to oscillate between wanting to be kind and needing to back off. This conundrum more often paralyses us: should we offer help or should we go on with our own business?

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Noone left behind: Experiencing the outdoors as a disabled mother!

No one likes or wants to be left behind! But as a disabled mother, I sometimes don’t have a choice. Because of lack of accessibility, if I want my son to experience the World, it often means I have to let him experience it without me. Read about my choice to staying behind while in Hawai’i.

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Happy Holidays Fraud: Seven lessons to protect your identity and accounts

We all work hard for our money! And it is safe to say that we will do everything to protect what is ours.

But what happens when the call you are getting telling you they are there to protect you is a fraud? Read my story about how I got caught, trusted the wrong person and how much it actually cost me.

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