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Crip Space-Time: The Math I Do Before Breakfast
"Accessible" tells me almost nothing. A toilet can be accessible, yet missing a grab bar. A conference room can have carpet. I do the math on all of it, every day.
Nobody sees this math. A researcher gave it a name: crip spacetime.
Beyond Acceptance: Reclaiming Who We Are
Acceptance releases the negative emotion attached to what changed — and it matters. For people with spinal cord injury, greater acceptance is consistently linked to better quality of life and mental health.
But re-appraisal goes further: it asks what a role actually meant to you underneath how you used to perform it, and how you want to perform it now, fully, as yourself.
The Right to pee: Toilet Access on Planes
Toilet access on planes is a documented, unresolved barrier in the accessibility research. Yet it places people at risk. It is time to make a change!
Advertised, Not Offered: What "Accessible" Actually Means in Tourism
A pattern worth naming, for World Tourism Day: the gap between what's advertised as accessible and what's actually available when a disabled traveler shows up.
Between the ocean and the elevator: Why I Never Stopped Traveling
Travel affects wellbeing through at least two distinct channels: positive emotion — joy and awe — and self-efficacy, the confidence built from proving your own competence.
My first trip after my accident gave me two things I didn't expect: a lesson on how to advocate for myself— and joy from watching my son dip his toes in the ocean.
The Legacy We Leave by Showing Up
With the right kind of support, nobody has to be left behind on family trips. Rafting as a paraplegic is possible. And in doing I left a lasting impression.
Beyond the Charts: Believing in your clients’ capacity
What if the thing that helped me most in rehab wasn't a stretch or an exercise — it was one sentence, years apart from the exercise itself?
There's a name for it in psychology: RISE — your sense of how much your therapist believes in you. Research shows it predicts your own self-efficacy and effort, sometimes more than what you already believe about yourself.
Living a Rich Life
Psychologists Oishi and Westgate (2022) argue a good life has three separate dimensions — happiness, meaning, and psychological richness — and most of us default to organizing our lives around only the first two.
I am sharing about how I found a way to live a Rick Life as a paraplegic mother.
Get a hold of your Narrator:The use of literary techniques to overcome fear
The stories we tell ourselves shaper our lives. But some simple literary techniques can help us hone in that little voice in our head.
Accessible Playgrounds: a right for every child!
Accessible playgrounds are important for boh children with and parents with disabilities. We all have the right to play!
Between holding on and letting go: a positive mindset in front of adversity.
We always have a choice in how we react to events that happen to us. Getting wet from the rain, can have some beauty in it.
Smith, party of 5: a disability doesn’t take away our strengths.
Having a disability does not impede us from having strengths. In reality, having a disability leads us to developing strengths we didn’t know we had, like the capacity to adapt rapidly. This story illustrates just that.
Let them win! Creativity in parenting from a mom on wheels
Cleverness in parenting does not require us to be abled-body. It only requires a little bit of creativity!
Parenting is a social act: experience from a mom on wheels
Parenting can be hard when our children have long days, filled with excitement. As parents, it may then be hard to manage, but this is why parenting is a great social act. When one parent can’t manage, another can take control of the situation. And a disability does not impede our ability to do so.
Make it Accessible and they will come: Inclusive beaches for wheelchair users
People with disabilities also want to experience the outdoors, including national parks and beaches. Beaches can be made inclusive with the use of this special wheelchair.
To help or not to help? That is the question we should all ask ourselves!
When we see someone with a disability, we too often assume they are dependent and require help. Which leads us to giving assistance quickly, automatically and too often without even asking. Even when help is not warranted nor required.
Because most of us do not know enough about disabilities, our tendencies are to oscillate between wanting to be kind and needing to back off. This conundrum more often paralyses us: should we offer help or should we go on with our own business?
The right to hike! How disabled tourists also want to access the breath-taking viewpoints
Not everyone likes to workout.
But many will make the effort to access a breath-taking viewpoint!
And even if most of us will want to experience those breath-taking views with the people we love the most, there are still too many of us who won’t have the pleasure to experience it due to lack of accessibility.
Noone left behind: Experiencing the outdoors as a disabled mother!
No one likes or wants to be left behind! But as a disabled mother, I sometimes don’t have a choice. Because of lack of accessibility, if I want my son to experience the World, it often means I have to let him experience it without me. Read about my choice to staying behind while in Hawai’i.
Happy Holidays Fraud: Seven lessons to protect your identity and accounts
We all work hard for our money! And it is safe to say that we will do everything to protect what is ours.
But what happens when the call you are getting telling you they are there to protect you is a fraud? Read my story about how I got caught, trusted the wrong person and how much it actually cost me.
How-to Welcome disabled families back to school: 3 lessons on Accessibility from a mom with a spinal cord injury
Anxiety and back to school for a mom with a spinal cord injury. We all either hate or love the September return back to school time. Very few of us feel indifferent about it anyway.
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